The Chaste Housewife #1- On Honoring One’s Mother                                                                                                                                    
Note: The following story from the Nrsimha Purana appeared in issue number eleven of the Sri Krishna Kathamrita Bindu, the free fortnightly email magazine from IsKcon’s Gopal Jiu Publications. It illustrates the negative effects of pride as well as the power of a chaste lady. It is adapted for theater by Radha Damodar dasa.
Narrator: (over soft music)There was once a righteous brahmana named Kasyapa. He had mastered all of the scriptures and was expert in explaining them. Disinclined to performing another’s duty, he was daily absorbed in the worship of Lord Narasimha and was always engaged in performing religious acts of sacrifice. Every morning and evening, he would offer oblations into the sacred fire and he would always show proper hospitality to the brahmanas and guests at his residence.
His wife was named Savitri. She was a high-minded lady, was honored for her virtue, and led a spotless life in service to her husband. Due to her chastity and devotion she was endowed with the power of knowing things beyond the range of the senses.
There was also a wise brahmana named Yajnasharman living in the land of Koshala. He had a devoted and religious wife named Rohini who was endowed with all auspicious features and an unblemished character. 
After some time, Rohini gave birth to a son. Yajnasharman performed all of the recommended purificatory ceremonies for his son as described in the Vedas. The boy was named Devasharman.  When he was eight years, old his father performed his sacred thread ceremony and engaged him in study of the Vedas. However, just after Devasharman had mastered the Vedas, his father died. Devasharman performed the funeral ceremonies for his father according to the instructions of saintly persons, and then he decided to travel to different places of pilgrimage.
Devasharman’s fame as a great ascetic gradually spread far and wide. He had no residence and was always wandering from one place to another. Maintaining himself by begging alms, he was always chanting Vedic mantras and performing sacrifices. Meanwhile, with her husband dead and her only son living as an ascetic, Devasharman’s mother, Rohini, had no means of support and was suffering terribly.
One day, Devasharman came to the bank of a river where he took bath, spread his cloth on the ground to dry, and sat in meditation. Just then, a crow and a crane came and suddenly flew away with his cloth. Seeing this, Devasharman became angry and shouted abuses at them. The birds then dropped the cloth on the ground, passed stool on it, and flew away. 
Devasharman: (running about and shouting) Hey! Get out of here! Go! Shoo! Stupid, worthless, stinking birds! (aside) Whew! (recovering from the exertion as he picks up his clothes)  Oh, this is terrible! Look at that, those wretched birds have fouled my best cloth and after I spent all that time and effort washing it, too. It’s all I have, so now I’ll have to bathe and wash my cloth all over again and that will probably really set my afternoon schedule back! 
Narrator: Devasharman looked at the fleeing birds with wrath, and immediately the birds burned to ashes by his acquired mystic power. 
Devasharman: Oh my Goodness, look at that! I didn’t know that I could do that! I’m surprised to see this … But, then again, I shouldn’t be! This is the natural fruit of my yoga austerities. In fact, I must conclude that there is no one in the world equal to me in penance! Hmm … this could come in handy. Well, at least I have nothing to fear …
Narrator: Proud of the strength of his austerity, Devasharman left the river to seek alms at a nearby village. Thus, he was fortunate to come to the house where the devoted wife Savitri and her husband Kasyapa lived. 
Devasharman: (calling out) O fortunate householder, I am Devasharman, the son of Yajnasharma and, by your good fortune, I have came to your door to request that give me alms! A little rice, some fruit … perhaps some milk or yogurt …
Narrator: (this is acted out) However, Savitri was just then serving her husband his midday meal. Although she saw Devasharman at the door, she remained silent and attentive to her husband. After her husband had eaten, she washed his feet with warm water. Only then did she come forward to offer alms to the brahmacari.
Devasharman: I am so hungry! Doesn’t she know that I am a great renunciate and I only eat  once a day?! I could just go on to the next house… I’ll give her five more minutes … Hmmm, it wouldn’t be right to use my devastating powers upon the brahmanas!
Narrator: Having been made to wait for so long, Devasharman was very angry. He glared at the devoted housewife again and again with red-hot eyes.
Savitri: (seeing his conduct and laughing) O furious sage! I am not the crow or the crane that fell down dead on the bank of the river by the strength of your anger! If you want to accept alms from me, you will have to behave properly! (She fills his extended top cloth with fruits and wrapped foods and Devasharman leaves.)
Devasharman: Thank you, Mother.                                                                                              (music to indicate the passage of time)
Narrator: Devasharman could understand that Savitri knew everything by her own mystic power. Collecting the alms given by Savitri, the brahmachari, Devasharman, quietly left that place. Walking back to the river, he again and again thought in his mind:
Devasharman: Savitri is not an ordinary person! How was it that she had come to know of the death of the crow and the crane? I fear that, out of my own pride, I have neglected to learn some powerful lesson here. I should go back to the village and make sure …  (music to indicate the passage of time)
Narrator: Devasharman returned to the village, leaving his begging bowl by the river. After the devoted Savitri had finished her meal and her husband had gone out, the brahmacari came to her residence and said:
Devasharman: O blessed woman, please tell me how you acquired this mystic power of knowing all things beyond the capabilities of the senses?
Savitri: O brahmana, please listen attentively to the answer to this question. The mystic power that I possess is the result of careful and consistent observance of the prescribed duties of a chaste wife. 
Service to one’s husband is the established duty of women. O high-minded one, I have always followed that duty.  Indeed, I know nothing else. I have acquired this power because day and night, without questioning, I have given complete satisfaction to my husband, waiting upon him with love and devotion.
Devasharman: I accept that your piety and ability is more than my own. If you would be so kind, please instruct me in the path of righteous living for the purpose of ultimate liberation from the cycle of material birth and death.
Savitri: If you are interested to listen, I will tell you something else that I have seen - your father was a brahmana who lived on alms and you took lessons from him on the Vedas. Whatever strength and power you have is only due to your father, who performed various samskaras in your life. When he died, you performed his funeral ceremonies. Then, ignoring your aged and widowed mother, you came here. 
Your mother bore you in her womb. After you were born, she nurtured you and brought you up with all love and affection. She did everything for you including cleaning your stool. Yet, you have deserted her and have been practicing austerities in the forest all these years, caring only for your self. That poor, wretched woman is now without any support while your sole interest is only to feed yourself! Because of the suffering of your mother a bad odor is coming from your mouth.  
O brahmana, aren’t you ashamed?!? What do you hope to gain by wandering about in the forest?
Devasharman: (shaken) Yes, you are right in every detail; what am I to do!?
Savitri: O evil-minded sinner, just recently, for no reason, you have burnt to death two innocent  birds!! As a result of this, all of your sacred baths, your visits to different holy places, and all your meditation and sacrifices have been in vain!! 
O brahmana, that person who sees his mother in a poor and wretched condition lives in vain, whereas he who is full of regard for his mother and who always protects her with devotion gets all rewards in this world and hereafter.
You should immediately go to your mother and save her life. Her protection is your highest penance. Give up your anger, for it destroys all merits accumulated in this world and in the next. You should also atone for the sin of killing the two birds. 
O brahmacari, what I have spoken to you is correct. If you are interested in ultimate happiness you should follow my advice.
Devasharman: (convinced and humbled) O Savitri, O blessed lady, please forgive me for the offense I have made to you by looking at you in anger!! You have told me what is good for me. Thank you so much!
Savitri: Go in peace.
Devasharman: O righteous lady, after returning to take care of my mother, what duties shall I perform to attain the supreme goal?
Savitri: Listen carefully; I shall now tell you the duties that you have to perform:
You should maintain your mother by begging, and you should also perform the prescribed atonement for the sin of killing the two birds.
In the land of Kosala, there is a girl born in a brahmana family who is destined to be your wife. When you return home, her father will come to your family home and offer his daughter to you. You should graciously accept her. Soon after, she will give birth to a baby boy who will perpetuate your family.
Live together peacefully in Krishna Consciousness for many years. Finally, with the passing away of your wife, you should take up the order of tridandi-sannyasa.  At the end of your life, you will certainly attain the abode of Lord Vishnu, provided you sincerely follow the disciplines of the sannyasa asrama, by the grace of Lord Narasimhadev.
I have prophesied all of these things because you have inquired from me. If you do not have faith in my words, then you may do as you like.
Devasharman: O devoted wife of Kasyapa, I will immediately return to take care of my mother. O auspicious one, when I reach there, I will do everything according to your advice.
(Comments by HH Gour Govinda Swami:)
Narrator: Having said this, Devasharman at once started for his home. There, free from anger and delusion, he maintained his mother with all care. He married and was blessed with a son. When his wife passed away, he took up the life of a wandering mendicant. He treated pebbles, stones, and gold on an equal level and, by the grace of Lord Narasimhadev, he attained the spiritual abode of the Lord.

One may ask how it was that the brahmacari was obliged to maintain his aged mother?  Since he had devoted himself to religious pursuits and was strictly following the vows of brahmacarya, would he not be free from this obligation as per the following injunction of Srimad Bhagavatam 11.5.41?
devarsi-bhutapta-nrnam pitrnam
na kinkaro nayam rni ca rajan
sarvatmana yah saranam saranyam
gato mukundam parihrtya kartam

“Anyone who has completely given up all worldly relationships and has taken absolute shelter of the lotus feet of the Lord, who gives us salvation and who alone is fit to be taken shelter of, is no longer a debtor or servant of anyone, including the demigods, forefathers, sages, other living entities, relatives, and members of human society.”
It should be noted, however, that this injunction of the Bhagavatam applies only to those persons who have taken full shelter of the Lord. Although Devasharman appeared to be living a highly pious life, his activities were still on the material platform. His objective was material piety through performing religious activities and visiting places of pilgrimage. He had not left home in pursuit of the Supreme Lord, nor had he sought out the association of transcendentalists, nor had he taken shelter of a bonafide spiritual master. Devasharman considered himself to be free from obligations to this world but because his pursuits were only external it was improper for him to abandon his religious mother.
Since his activities were still on the material platform, the only fruit he received from them was an increase in his false prestige. This pride developed into anger, which then impelled him to kill the two birds.
Devasharman had some faith in pious religious activities, thus he had karma-adhikara, or qualification for acting according to the Vedic system of religiosity. But, he did not have faith in surrendering to the Lord, thus he was devoid of bhakti-adhikara, or qualification for performing krsna-bhakti. If those possessing karma-adhikara do not follow the principles of varnasrama-dharma then they become implicated in sin. For this reason, the chaste and omniscient housewife advised Devasharman to return home.
Krishna has instructed Uddhava (Bhag. 11.20.9):
tavat karmani kurvita
na nirvidyeta yavata
mat-katha-sravanadau va
sraddha yavan na jayate

“As long as one is not detached from fruitive activity and material enjoyment, and as long as one has no faith in devotion to Krishna, beginning with the process of hearing and chanting His glories, one has to act according to the religious principles of karma or varnasrama.”
In the next chapter of the eleventh canto, Krishna again says (11.21.2):
sve sve ‘dhikare ya nistha
sa gunah parikirtitah
viparyayas tu dosah syad
ubhayor esa niscayah

“Being fixed in the position for which one is qualified is virtuous. The opposite, accepting a position for which one is unqualified, is irresponsible and is considered impious. This is the definite conclusion.”
Devasharman gradually developed genuine detachment by acting according to his position in the Vedic system of Varnasrama dharma. He then took to the order of sannyasa and in the end achieved the spiritual abode of the Lord.